Ladies, when was the last time you spent 2 whole hours being massaged and pampered by a qualified, male therapist who you could trust implicitly allowing you to relax and make the most of your experience? Many women love massage and prefer the slightly stronger touch. Sadly, in this country massage often carries a stigma and it’s hard to know who to trust.
A good male masseur should understand that all ladies have different perceptions of their perfect massage. Some prefer to be covered. Some have areas of their body they are unhappy with and would prefer to remain covered and untouched at all times.
The massage experience should start with a friendly “chat style” consultation designed to lighten the mood and let the lady open up about her levels of modesty, any boundaries, any expectations, any fears or taboos and anything else that is important to her. Additionally, you should discuss areas that constantly ache, areas that you just love to be massaged, areas you want to avoid, etc. The very best male massage therapists / massage clinics have anatomical drawings to guide the very shy woman.
With regards what to wear during the massage, you should take off as much as you are comfortable with.
The other factor that the masseur should have considered is your reassurance of safety. He should understand that especially on the first visit, because you are in a strange environment, you may feel apprehensive, frightened or vulnerable. He should have absolutely no objections to you bringing your partner with you. Your partner can sit in the massage room and observe, or if you are both happy with the environment he can just drop you off and pick you up later; your choice.
Some people who offer male therapists are:
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